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Summer time and the living isn’t really all that easy…

Finally the Big Boy has finished pre-school – woo hoo! We celebrated by having a camp out in the garden (I say ‘we’ but I actually volunteered Grandad for the job).  All was great until he came sprinting up the stairs at 5.45am (AM! I’m not going to suggest this is morning because frankly it’s not) green as the tent and then threw up everywhere. Grandad blamed the amount of Pringles consumed but I think it was down to a bug or sheer over excitement.  Not quite the start to the holidays I’d envisaged – digging out sick bowls and washing carpets but there you go.

To make up for the lost day I decided to treat BB to an afternoon at Legoland, which was brilliant as we didn’t get there to 3pm but they extended the opening to 8pm – managed to do loads of rides and had a very happy boy on the way home. Feeling great that I’d conquered Legoland I ambitiously thought an outing to a farm park with the twins too would be just the ticket to ensuring the summer hols was properly swinging. Hadn’t factored in the lag exhaustion factor post Legoland, or that the twins wouldn’t have a proper sleep. Or that it would be scorching hot.  We survived but only just, I was the snappy, hot and bothered mother trying to force the reluctant potty training twin to do a wee when all he wanted was to lie down in a puddle and not move, and all I really wanted to do was lie down and join him…

Lesson learnt, the rest of the week I’m planning to do very little and let the children just rampage at home.  In reality this isn’t strictly the ‘easy’ option as already have had to evacuate the paddling pool after the reluctant potty trainer did a large poo in it but has to be easier than coercing them to have fun just because I’ve spent the week’s ents budget to get into a place!

 

Summer hols are almost here – eek!

It’s been ten months since I quit my job to become a stay-at-home mum (SAHM). As part of the transition to being at home I consciously left behind  some of the trappings of working life. However, ten months on, I think I need to re-instate some of my old ways, particularly prioritising what I should be doing and organising my time better.

This week, for example, I’ve been fretting about the looming summer holidays. My oldest is finishing pre-school in a few weeks and there is a six-week gap before he starts school. At the same time the twins are fully embracing what it is to be two years old (‘It’s all about me’) and want to be more independent, which is fantastic but three children on the loose and only one pair of hands and eyes is daunting.  To top it off there are no play groups, all the usual activities stop for the break and most of the free activities will be super busy. 

As well as wanting to keep them all safe, I want my oldest son to have the best summer holiday ever, not to have a stressed out shouty mummy who he can’t wait to see the back of in September.

To get us all through the summer in one piece, I’ve hired an au pair to help me out with park visits, getting food on the table and the like.  She is due to start in a few weeks but is currently AWOL, which hasn’t been helping my worry levels.

But this afternoon I had a revelation, all I’ve been doing is worrying about things rather than trying to tackle problems head on. I can do this by working out what matters most to the children, to me and then prioritising. Using my old management tools I’m going to make me a summer holiday survival plan.  Ok, so that’s a bit overblown, but essentially I am going to work out what we want to do, how to make it happen and then get on with it.

It’s time to go back to making priority lists, planning my time and really asking what we all want and need to get out of things.  Once problems are written down they never seem as big and seeing them in black and white provides an opportunity to get to grips with them, rather than letting them fester and grow.

I’m feeling better already and actually looking forward to seeing what being a SAHM at one of the most challenging times of year is like – bring it on!